Why I will (and won’t) read your blog

There are a whole damn lot of blogs and book blogs out there and only so many hours in the day to see them all.

You know me: I really love spending time blog hopping, reading blog posts, seeing some people’s incredible talent for writing reviews, unique blog posts, spending time on blogs that are so pretty my eyes are watering and so on.

Yet, with years of book blogging behind me and only so many hours each day, I can’t be spending as much time as I’d like visiting, cheering on and supporting other book bloggers. Therefore…. I become selective with what I read. I become selective with the kind of blogs I stop on and the kind of blogs I just, well… skip.

Today, I thought I’d share my selection process. What makes me stay and what makes me go, what makes me want to keep on reading to discover a blog and their blogger and what makes me close my browser’s window right away.

Small heads-up: this blog post isn’t meant to be mean, at all and it’s based on my unique, personal preferences, just as well, so please take it with a grain of salt!

πŸ” My first impressions on a blog

🎨 The blog’s design: do and don’t

Honestly, the first thing we see from a blog is its design and, despite trying our best not to be shallow and, well, judge a book by its covers, there are just some things that I personally can’t deal with.

I am far from being a graphics expert and even farther away from being a branding expert, but there are two things that will make me flee from a blog without even trying.

  1. Colors, and
  2. Fonts

If I’m stepping onto a new place online and have to squint to be able to read something, because the font is too bright or the colors are too flashy, I’m sorry but I will go away. My eyesight isn’t the best and I’m not here to make it worse.

Choose your blog’s colors and fonts wisely. If you like pink, that’s fine, but maybe think of making it more of a pastel color than a very bright one. If you like patterns, fine too, but is your text still readable under all the lovely colors and motifs?

Same goes for fonts. I personally love script fonts and, when I rebranded my entire blog, I hesitated for a long, long time with multiple fonts, some that I personally loved, but my sister told me they weren’t that readable. So I skipped them.

Don’t be afraid to ask for others’ opinions when choosing fonts and colors and design overall.

As for the blog’s layout, I also happen to have some pet peeves.

If I can’t find your most recent blog posts in a minute, I’m sorry but I might give up. If I’m visiting a blog, it’s to read blog posts, or at least see what the blog posts are about, before deciding whether or not I’ll read on. If I can’t find the blog posts easily, I might not even get to read your blog, at all.

Some bloggers choose to display their most recent posts on their homepage, which is, honestly, what I love the most. That being said, if you’d like to pick another homepage, that’s good too – but you should make sure that your blog posts are accessible. Either through your menu, with “Blog Posts” clearly stated, through categories in your menu and so on.

Some other tiny things tend to bother me:

  • Pop-ups that open right away when you’re just arriving on a new blog. Give me some time to see your blog before jumping on me to make me subscribe to your newsletter.
  • Not being able to comment on a blog post. I know, I might be old school since everything’s happening on social media, but.. if I read and love a blog post, I still like to comment on it to show my appreciation. If I can’t, or if I have to jump through loops, connect three times and type my comment six times until it goes through, I will give up.

Some interesting articles about designing and branding I’d recommend:

May @ Forever and Everly wrote a great blog post about : How to get started on making your blog pretty: a design guide.

Kat @ Novels & Waffles asks 4 questions we should ask ourselves while rebranding.

πŸ’» What makes me read a blog post – and why I won’t read yours

I would LOVE to read more blog posts and leave more comments. I know how hard book bloggers work and I know that free labour is, more often than not, rewarded and made worth it by comments and others’ appreciation. I know that’s how I feel.

That being said…. sometimes, I’m really sorry, but I just won’t even want to read a blog post. Here’s why.

  • If your text is just one massive block, with no paragraphs, no images, no GIFs, nothing. Just WORDS.

I know, I know. I’m a bookworm and I read 400 pages novels with no images at all, so what? I don’t want to read a blog post when all I see is text, okay. I want paragraphs so I can take a breath, I want GIFs, or images, photographs, yours or stock, whatever you prefer. It makes it so much easier to read a blog post, it makes it so much easier to make me want to pay attention. I’m like a kid okay, I see just text and I’m reminded of my university assignments and want to run.

  • If your blog post is just book covers and images and no words.

I know, I’m kind of saying black and white in these two paragraphs, but hear me out. If I don’t want to read just text, I don’t want to be thrown just images at my face. I’m mainly talking about book blogs here, since it’s the main kind of blog I read…. and I don’t want just to watch some book covers. I want to hear why you’re putting them here, why you’re talking about this book, why you think it’s a great winter read or it made you want to throw it out the window. Give me something to think about, give me something to talk about with you.

  • If your blog post isn’t engaging overall…. I won’t read it.

Okay, Marie, you ask, but what the heck do you mean by “engaging“? It means, I want to read it. For me, it’s a compilation of everything, really. The blog post’s title, the blog post’s appearance overall (with images and text, breathable and beautiful, with bold and bigger text and titles in between and so on), the writing (with no mistakes and grammarly correct, though I know we’re not all perfect, I know I am not!).

When I click to read a blog post, I want to keep on reading it. It starts with the first image, the first words, up until the very end of the blog post. It’s about raising points, asking questions, expressing opinions, making me think, wonder, want to add a book to my TBR. I want to see your passion, your blogging voice and your interest in what you write.

One easy tip to remember to achieve that is this: what makes YOU read a blog post on others’ blogs? What makes you want to keep on reading and what do you like about them? WITHOUT COPYING their entire layout and way of writing, think about how you can achieve that, too.

Related blog post: How to find your blogging voice.

Some other tiny things that tend to bother me on book blogs…

  • I personally love seeing diversity on a blog.

It’s a very personal opinion here once again, but…. I’m sorry. If I only see almost exclusively book reviews, I might not read on your blog a whole lot, or want to come back. If I only see memes and Top Ten Tuesdays, same. There are some exception to these, I’m sure, but most of the time, I like to see different kind of blog posts on book blogs. I like reading reviews, discussions, memes, unique blog posts, wrap-ups and so on. This is NOT what will prevent me from reading a blog, but this will maybe prevent me from subscribing and coming back, when I don’t see too much diversity.

  • If I read a book review…. I want to read your opinion about the book.

Another personal pet peeve: book reviews stating the synopsis in 3 out of 4 paragraphs and only giving out two sentences with your opinion. If you don’t want to say more or don’t have a thousand words to say about a book, it’s FINE. I just feel cheated when I see a long review, think I’ll get a whole lot of thoughts about a book and just end up knowing very well the synopsis, but just that you liked it.

That’s it? I need to know why, how and why another million times, because I want to talk with you about this book and….Β  well, right now I just can’t.

Related blog post: How to write a great blog post

Caitlin @ Caitlin Althea also wrote an amazing blog post about what makes her keep on reading a post.

πŸ‘€ I might not be reading your blog because I just don’t know about it.

Every single day, I discover new book bloggers and I am amazed by just how much and how passionate they are. Bloggers that are just starting out, bloggers that have been there for so many years now they’re dinosaurs just like I am.

πŸ“’ Remember to put yourself out there

If you want people to read what you have to say, you have to put yourself out there. I know how scary it is, believe me. I know how anxiety inducing it can be, but it’s the best way to grow your blog and to meet others, to be part of the community and to really feel what it’s like, to be blogging.

There are many ways to network when you’re a blogger.

  • You can join the social media overwhelming frenziness, twitter and instagram (bookstagram, for bookish people) being the two main platforms for book bloggers. You can share your thoughts and your blog posts and both make people read what you have to say and meet incredible people.
  • You can blog hop, meaning visiting blogs, reading blog posts and leaving genuine and sweet comments to the blogs and posts you enjoyed, create a link, a conversation that can continue on both your and their blogs and down the road, create a wonderful friendship, too.

Related blog post: how to blog hop and why I do it.

πŸ’› It’s okay if you’re not reading too many blog posts, too.

Honestly, I’m just one human with 24 hours per day to live and…. despite everything said above, I might not be reading your blog posts at all because I’m not aware that they exist.

I also want to do more, read more, support more bloggers, but I just don’t have the time, either.

I feel like I want to apologize for not reading blog posts more, especially lately, but I also feel like I should read blog posts I genuinely enjoy and when I can dedicate the time for it, too, without burning myself out.

In the end, we’re all doing our very best and I want to hope that every blog post out there finds their readers, sometimes with time, perseverance, sometimes randomly and sometimes extraordinarily.

What makes you want to read a blog post? What makes you want to just run away from a blog post or a blog altogether? Do you sometimes feel like you don’t read enough blog posts, or is it just me?

What are some of your blogging pet peeves? Anything we share? Feel free to ask in comments!

 

 

 

 

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204 thoughts on “Why I will (and won’t) read your blog

  1. you make so many good points in this! I think my process in following a blog is quite similar to yours! it can get really overwhelming keeping up with all the amazing blog posts there are but blog hopping is something where you have to find a middle ground that’s good for you! I loved reading this! πŸ’›

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    1. aww thank you, so happy you liked my post! It is overwhelming at times, there are just so many incredible blogs to read.We’re all doing our very best though ❀ thank you!! ❀

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  2. I love this discussion post. I just stay away from flashy looking blogs because MY EYES! And also yes if the reviews are just synopses and a few words I’m #annoyed. I came to hear that person’s opinion. Also I don’t like it when the blog is filled with just book blitzes and promo posts eeep

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    1. Aww thank you so much, Uma! I agree, I want to read more than just promotional blog posts, I want to read the blogger’s thoughts and opinions too! πŸ™‚

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  3. What a great post! I agree with so much of what you are saying. I hate it when I have a hard time reading a post because of colors or decorative fonts. My eyes just can’t do it some days. I can also have trouble with “snow” or anything else moving across the screen. My eyes are old and while it may be cute it make the words harder to read. I hate having to jump through hoops to leave a comment. It makes me not want to come back and have that kind of experience again. I probably don’t have as much variety in blog as I should have which gives me something to think about.

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    1. Ahh thank you so much, Carole! ❀ Oh I get that, I feel like I rarely stumble upon blogs with snow or little moving things anymore, thankfully, I hate these too!
      I love commenting and I'm always so frustrated when I can't!
      Thank you so, so much for sharing your thoughts!! ❀

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  4. Popups, fonts/colours, and not being able to comment are total turnoffs for me too :/ I also have a really hard time connecting with posts that are written poorly & don’t make sense. The theme, organisation of a post, and overall accessibility are what either draws me in or pushes me away :’) I absolutely love when I come across a blogger who knows their writing voice & can get their point across beautifully!

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    1. I agree with you so much, Macey. I feel like blog posts need a proper start and end, without being like college essays, they still have to be written in an understandable way, so I know where the blogger is going with this haha πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!! πŸ˜€

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  5. Marie!! This post was amazing! Great discussion and definitely not something that’s usually talked about. Everyone has their own criteria for what kind of blog posts entertain and interest them. I’m definitely a visual person so blogs that are aesthetically pleasing to my tastes tend to be the ones that get my follow. (Side note: I’ve been gone quite a while but I love your redesign! It looks amazing!! ❀️)

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    1. SARA! Oh it’s so lovely to hear from you and I hope you’ve been doing okay ❀ ❀
      I so agree with you, aesthetics matter a whole damn lot to me too ahha πŸ™‚ THANK you so much ahh😭 I'm so happy you like it, thank you! ❀ ❀

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  6. I agree with everything you mentioned! Whenever I discover a new blog the first thing I do is scroll through the homepage. I want to see how it’s set up. One of my biggest pet peeve is when you need to scroll through an entire post to find the next one. That’s an immediate no for me. I want to easily find older posts, because I’m not always interested in the most recent post. And I appreciate variety as well! If I don’t see any discussions, I usually won’t spend that much time on the blog, since those are my favorite posts no matter the blog. I also find that purely review blogs are not my thing since, on top of not loving reviews that much, it means that I have to read the same books as the blogger, which is pretty rare.

    And I feel like one of my biggest fears are blocks of text. If there is no gif or cover in a post, it can take me a year to finish, no matter how interesting the content. It’s difficult for me to read things on screens, but pictures and big fonts save lives. I could go on and on about how I agree with every statement you made, but there’s no need because you said it all so well, and this comment is turning into a novel already. In summary, I loved this post and it definitely has everything that makes me want to revisit your blog! πŸ˜„

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    1. Oh yes this is something I could have mentioned as well! I much prefer it when there’s the “read more” option and when I don’t have to scroll through entire blog posts to get to the next ones. It’s a little frustrating!
      I’m so, so happy you could relate to this post! I’m right here with you on that, I can take ages to read a blog post with no images and… I just might give up halfway, oops haha.

      THANK You so, so much ah, you’re too sweet Malka, thank you ❀ ❀ ❀

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  7. 2019 was not my best book blog hopping year… but I am trying to do better this year. I have my favourites which I will try to visit first on a hop session, and then I try and comment back as much as possible. But I also have a few pet peeves and one of them is whether the design is accessible or not, and if the review is just synopsis or really shows opinion! I also find it so much easier to keep up with blogs if they have bloglovin but lately it seems like new blogs don’t use it?? DD:

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    1. It’s so, so hard to keep up with all the blogs, there are just so many and with so little time on our hands, we’re all doing our very best! ❀
      I feel like bloglovin' isn't used anymore, either, though I'm not sure why. Maybe people keep up with their blogs on social media? I'm curious about that!

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      1. I’ve started to use feedly alongside blogger and it helps so much seeing as they don’t have to be on there… you just need their link and you can sort blogs into categories.

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  8. Yes yes yes! I agree with everything you say. I also don’t like it it if there is too much stuff going on in the side bar. I get distracted easily so no moving things or lots of colors next to the main post. Luckily, lots of people don’t have that. πŸ™‚
    Pop-up subscription boxes are THE WORST. Instead of closing them, I’ll just close the whole website because it ruins it.
    I also love gifs, but I don’t use them (yet). It is so difficult to find the right one! It truly is an art haha.
    Lovely post Marie! ❀ And also, thanks for the low-key tips for making my blog better πŸ˜‰

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    1. Ahh thank you so much, so happy you enjoyed it πŸ™‚
      I agree, pop-up subscriptions make me want to quit the website right away, it makes me so sad. AND YES finding GIFs is so complicated sometimes, takes me hours hahaha πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for your sweet comment!! ❀ ❀

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  9. This is such a great post Marie! I tend to only read reviews of books I’ve read/heard of, but I’m mostly drawn to a post by its title as it comes up in my email feed. Then once I’ve decided to click if it looks really long and not broken up I’ll probably just like it and not read it, but usually it mostly depends on how I’m feeling that particular day. Variety is definitely important too; I also don’t really read memes.

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    1. Thank you so much!! ❀ I agree with you, my reading depends on my day, too! Sometimes I'll feel like reading long posts while other days I just can't be bothered haha πŸ™‚

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  10. This was so interesting to read, especially from someone so experienced in the blogging community! I agree with everything you said about why you DON’T read a blog post, and all your tips about networking and getting your posts out there are so helpful. I’ve been doing this for a while, but there’s ALWAYS more to learn!!

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  11. I agree completely with all of your statements! I especially agree with the point you made about blog posts that ONLY contain images (or sometimes just book titles but no descriptions, no reasoning for why they chose that book, etc.). I click on the post because I want more than just a generic Goodreads list! I want to know WHY you put the book on that list and what you liked about it! Great post πŸ™‚

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  12. Wonderful post, Marie!!! You really pinpointed many of the things that can either make or break my desire to read a blog post! Having a nice and readable design is definitely something that contributes to my initial desire to read a post, and having breaks in the text and an overall coherent layout and thought provoking content is sure to keep me there! πŸ™‚

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  13. This is a great post, and really helpful. I like how you call out bits of text by using different font sizes and emphasis (like putting sections of sentences in bold) because it helps me sort of skim your posts for the bits that catch my attention. On the one hand, I tend to not read your posts super thoroughly because the next bolded or differently colored bit of text has caught my eye and pulled me forward, but on the other when that bit of text seems really interesting to me I slow down to take in the rest of the “normal” text as well. I feel like I don’t see that technique used much, and I like it!

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    1. Oh thank you so much, I’m so, so happy you enjoyed it ❀ ❀ and I'm so glad that my formatting makes you read the blog post, too, this makes me even happier. ❀
      I feel like it's so important to catch the reader's attention, with bigger or bold text, because I do exactly like you: I let my eyes get captured by this kind of text and then it makes me want to read the blog post further πŸ™‚

      Thank you so much for your comment! ❀ ❀

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  14. Loved this post, Marie πŸ™‚ I too stay away from flashy blogs and weird fonts. I hope I don’t fall under any of these categories πŸ˜€ However, my engagement has been quite low these days. And I keep missing your blog posts 😦

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  15. Love this Marie and I agree with your points completely. If I go onto a post and someone’s doing a top ten tuesday and just shows me 10 pictures of books and nothing else…. i’m out. I want opinions, I want reasoning. That being said I also don’t want essays. Like you mention, we get limited time so I don’t want to spend forever reading one post, I want to explore as much as I can whilst I can!

    x

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  16. I totally agree with so many of the points here! For me, a big one is diversity in content, I enjoy the odd book review or meme but they’re not my favourite at all. This is a really well thought out and well written post, I really enjoyed it. πŸ™‚

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    1. I’m so, so happy you enjoyed this post, thank you so much for your sweet comment! ❀ I agree with you, I like reading reviews and memes every now and then, but I love seeing different kind of blog posts on a blog πŸ˜€

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  17. I feel you on needing paragraphs! But I differ in that if there are too many gifs, I tend to tune out – I would prefer the reading to flow and sometimes, images break that up for me (and depending on the blog reader they may not show up correctly).

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    1. Ohh that’s an interesting point, thank you for bringing that out! I’m always trying to think of where exactly to put my GIFs to make a break, while hopefully not breaking entirely my trail of thoughts, but it’s definitely complicated sometimes haha πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for your comment!! ❀

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  18. This is an excellent post! It really made me think of the way I blog, and how I could do better! πŸ˜… And honestly, all of the points you have about the way blog posts look (not just chunks of text, some pictures but not ALL pictures, engaging) I love those things in a post too. I wish I had more time in a day to read others’ blogs and spread more love. 😭

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    1. Oh thank you so much! I’m so, so happy you enjoyed this post and agree with it, too ❀ and I get that, I wish I had all the time in the day to read more blogs and spread more love, too, but there's only so much we can do 😦 we're doing our best and that's what matters! ❀

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  19. Marie, this is a great post and I agree with pretty much all of it. I struggle so much with bright colours and patterns. It hurts my eyes and I can’t concentrate, it’s too overwhelming when there’s just SO MUCH COLOUR!!! I also struggle to read long paragraphs, as soon as I see a giant paragraph my body slumps and then I exit stage left. I probably have too short paragraphs on my own blog but I like text to be broken up as much as possible!

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    1. Oh thank you so much, I’m so happy you enjoyed this post ❀
      I get that so much, I know if there are paragraphs that are a bit too long, I can… get tired kind of easier and my attention goes elsewhere, especially if there's no bold or anything to make the paragraph stand out!
      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!! πŸ™‚

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  20. The 1-2 sentences about whether the blogger liked the book also gets me. It really feels like that person should be on Goodreads instead. If you’re going to make the leap from Goodreads to blog, there needs to be a reason for it. I almost think of it as a mission statement, much like businesses have. The only thing worse is this one blog I stumbled upon in which the blogger spoils every book they read. I did not know this, and protested a bit in the comments of one book “review.” The blogger then replied that their About page clearly states they intend to spoil every book. Ugh, noted.

    Another one that maybe you agree with: if I can comment on the blog, but the only way to be notified of follow-up comments is to subscribe to that posts comments. So then you get an email about EVERY comment every person leaves.

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    1. I feel like everyone can review books the way they want it to. I personally prefer having 3/4rd of a review about a bloggers’ thoughts on the story and, if needed or if they like to, 1/4rd of the review can be a summary of the book, too. I’m not a fan of just reading re-summarized books for reviews, but to each their own πŸ™‚
      As for spoilers, I don’t mind them as long as there’s a warning beforehand, too, so I know what I’m heading into πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!! πŸ™‚

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  21. This is a really interesting post Marie and I realise that I really enjoy reading people’s opinions on what they do/ don’t look for in other bloggers and what appeals. A lot of it is personal taste but the same trends do crop up.

    I think I’m probably guilty of a ‘sin’ or two in that I’m the *worst* for long blocks of text with little to no gifs or pictures. My goal of trying to get posts down to 500 words is not one I’m achieving with ease!

    For me I agree with the having to log in to comment and quite often it’s what puts me off commenting completely. I also feel like if someone has covers only and no thoughts about books (it tends to happen in a lot of the Top X memes) that the post is one that I can’t give back to. I like to know the reasons why a book has been chosen because that’s a launching point to discussion and if I’m not getting anything from the post then I can’t give anything to it either!

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    1. Oh thank you so much, so happy you enjoyed this post! ❀

      I have to say that… I rarely EVER write a blog post under 1000 words ahah, the writer in me can't stop, but the blog reader in me always divide it all more into paragraphs and paragraphs, in order to make it more readable in the end.

      I'm so glad you agree on that! I'm always so sad when this happens, especially when I see SO many good book covers and no explanations for them. I'd love to chat, but… I just don't know what to say ahah πŸ™‚

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  22. Hey Marie!
    I love this post and I definitely agree with each of your points. I think the worst pet peeve for me is when I see huge paragraphs of text. I am a very impatient reader with a short attention span, so I most likely would lose motivation to read by paragraph 2 haha. I love posts with images, GIFs, quotes and also when bloggers highlight/bold words and change font size to direct my eyes to the key points πŸ™‚
    Great post!!

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    1. Ahh yes, me too! It’s strange how I have absolutely NO problem with books, but with blog posts, my attention is lost in a second and in a too long paragraph πŸ˜‚ I’m so happy you’re just like I am πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much!! ❀

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      1. Haha yeah you are right Marie. I do find it easier to focus on a book rather than a long-winded blog post (even though it’s both writing haha.) I do find that in a book there is more “white-space” from dialogue and such, and very rarely big chunks of paragraphs at once, but depends on the book!

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  23. You make great points here, Marie. I agree with diversity. I especially love discussion posts because they provide more engagement. I love hearing about new books from other readers/bloggers, but it’s hard to justify adding another book to my TBR because I know I can’t read them all. When I do read a book review, I want the blogger to tell me why I should read it. What makes it stand out from other books out there?

    I can relate to not having the time or energy to visit all the blogs I would love to discover. It’s even harder for me to find time now that I’m back in school full time.

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    1. Oh thank you so much, Crystal, so happy you enjoyed this post! ❀
      I agree with you, discussion posts are always the ones that make me think the most and therefore, make me want to talk a little more, too. When it comes to book lists and reviews, I need to have a little something more, like what makes these books stand out, yes! πŸ™‚

      I so get that struggle. it's so damn hard to find all the time in the world to visit wonderful blogs, but we can't do it all! 😦
      Thank you so, so much for your sweet comment ❀

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  24. I so agree with this, too:

    “Pop-ups that open right away when you’re just arriving on a new blog. Give me some time to see your blog before jumping on me to make me subscribe to your newsletter.”

    It seems most blogs and sites are doing this, but it drives me mad. I don’t want to subscribe for my email in the first place. Sidebar links or footer links (or headers!) are fine, but please stop popping up distracting me.

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    1. Oh thank you, Erin, I’m so, so happy you liked this post and could relate to it, too! ❀
      I feel so frustrated about these newsletter subscriptions, really. I mean, it's okay to see them on sidebars and headers and… it's even a little more okay if they pop up once I spent like, over 2 minutes on the blog, (and still, that annoys me. but it annoys me a little less than when it jumps at me right away and I haven't even HAD a chance to read a single word on the blog).
      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! ❀

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  25. This is a super helpful post, thank you for it.

    As a new and shy blogger I’m often struggling with the social part. I love reading discussion posts on other people’s blogs but I end up dismissing all my ideas for them.

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    1. Oh thank you I’m so happy this could be helpful to you! ❀ I get the anxiety about interacting, do it at your own pace and little by little, but everyone I've met is so welcoming and warm πŸ™‚ happy bloggin! x

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  26. Great post, girl! I honestly can’t help but say sameeee because saaaammeee! Actually, I’ve been trying to blog hop right now and read blog posts of bloggers I follow and it’s so eecckiee for me because I feel like I have to read everything someone I follow posts. And it’s another hnnggghh when I’m only really following them because they are my friend but their content isn’t exactly what I’d want to plunge my head on. It’s such a dilemma and I can’t help but scream “I NEED MORE TIME!!” I’m kind of lowkey feeling guilty for thinking about these so thank you for this post. Makes me feel like I’m not alone in experiencing these huhu

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    1. Thank you so much! So happy you agree with this post πŸ™‚ it’s hard not to feel guilty sometimes, but we only have so little time in our days, it’s important to focus on the blog posts we want to read and the ones that will bring us something more. If we still want to boost bloggers and their posts but don’t have time to do it all, we can always share some links in monthly wrap-ups or on social media, too πŸ™‚
      Thank you!! ❀

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  27. wow you make a lot of great points! I only started a month ago so all these tips are super helpful for the future!! I especially love how you use different size text and bold. It makes it easy to read and I can follow your main points really easily. Plus all the gifs add some flair and personality to the words. I was wondering about pictures and gifs. Which ones are you allowed to use?

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    1. Thank you so, so much, I’m so happy you could find this useful! There are many websites with free stock pictures, and you can find a lot of images on google images as well. Make sure to credit them when it’s due and mention it in your disclaimers’ page when you use images from google images too πŸ™‚

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